But the biggest blow is today. We agreed that she won’t be having her off last Saturday so she could be home on Holy Thursday…BUT she made an excuse that she didn’t want to be left ALONE last Saturday (Every weekend, we spend the night with my in-laws which she knows beforehand). Today, she was again LATE! (arrived 9:45am) and with her youngest son AGAIN.
That was the end of T’s patience. He scolded the helper and said she demands too much and that what was agreed on never happens…What makes matter worse is that the helper kept on answering back trying to reason out which angered T more.
T’s sleeping his anger off. ANd the helper’s ironing our clothes. But she’s all dressed up and kinda masungit when I saw her a while ago…I’m thinking she’s just finishing all the day’s work and leave…for good. Well, honestly I don’t know if it’s for the best. T thinks we should replace her. I’m more of sorry for the helper. But she should work (as if her work her is hard) to feed her sons. Sacrifice.
Quoting T: “yung problema niya sa mga anak niya parang problema din natin ah!”
Which is true. We’re all affected and it’s stressing me out.
I hope we could find peace with this issue. Whether she continue working with us or not.
**** I just realized we couldn’t bring her on Friday. We are going to check-in on one of the hotels at Greenbelt over the weekend. I don’t have to spend for her son noh!…ehhhh!!!!****
>wahhhh!!! i can totally relate..i am yaya-less starting thursday, last day na din ng yaya ko tomorrow..wala pang replacement, pano na work ko! huhuhu
>It's hard noh when you have a child tapos walang helper…Pero it's harder to find a GOOD helper nowadays T_T